//Blog Bits: Ne-Yo Offers Up Some Gentlemanly Relationship Advice//

If you’re going to take relationship advice from a music star, Grammy winning singer/songwriter Ne-Yo may be the best person to take it from. He has written some of the best relationship songs for our generation right?

From Beyonce‘s Ne-Yo penned monster hit Irreplaceable about a relationship gone bad to his own song Stop This World about a relationship that’s oh so right, it seems Ne-Yo would know every case that could be thrown out there.

In a Global Grind exclusive blog entitled “Be Honest With Yourself,” The Gentleman gives out some words of wisdom about love.

Now I’ve only been an occupant of this planet for 29 years, but in that time I’ve seen the sunshine and the rain. I am a man that has gone thru the many levels of what it is to be a man. From the selfishness and greed that we as a species suffer from, to the realization that the world doesn’t revolve around me and I’m NOT supposed to just get my way, to the being angry at that fact, to eventually accepting it and learning that it doesn’t mean that I can’t be happy. Because ultimately that’s what everybody wants. Be it “for life”, or “only for a night”, everybody wants to be happy. I think happiness starts with figuring out which one YOU want. If it’s “only for a night”, don’t run around getting into serious relationships, knowing all you’re gonna do is cheat. If it’s “for life”, understand what that means and be very careful in your selection process. Gotta make sure the other person is thinking the same way you are. In theory this should be very easy to do, in reality we lie to ourselves more than we do to other people.